Overcoming Perfectionism as an Athlete in Colorado - Tips from a Denver Therapist
Victoria Murray, LCSW Victoria Murray, LCSW

Overcoming Perfectionism as an Athlete in Colorado - Tips from a Denver Therapist

Colorado is a haven for outdoor sports enthusiasts.  It’s woven into the culture of the front-range cities - on weekends and weekdays alike, you can reliably count on hiking trails in Golden being packed, encountering dozens of trail runners in the flatirons of Boulder, or cyclists and joggers whizzing by you on a walk through Denver’s Wash Park.  Athletes and outdoor lovers are drawn from all over the country to live in places like Denver, Boulder and Colorado Springs.  Boulder county boasts at least 70 olympians live there due to the culture that is so supportive of athletics, in addition to the ability to train at high altitude.  For many people, the connection to nature and exercise is hugely beneficial for both their physical and mental health.  But sometimes, being surrounded by fellow athletes everywhere you look can bring up feelings of pressure, competition and perfectionism.  

Read on for a Denver therapist’s tips for dealing with perfectionism as an endurance athlete in Colorado.

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4 Ways to Overcome Anxiety:  Tips from a Denver Anxiety Therapist
Victoria Murray, LCSW Victoria Murray, LCSW

4 Ways to Overcome Anxiety: Tips from a Denver Anxiety Therapist

Anxiety disorders are the most commonly diagnosed mental health condition in the US, affecting at least 40 million or 19.1% of adult Americans each year. And those are just the people who are seeking treatment or meet criteria for a diagnosis - many people deal with day-to-day anxiety but don’t feel that they are struggling “enough” to get professional help.  Women are also more likely to be diagnosed with an anxiety condition than men, which makes sense when you think about all the hats we wear and responsibilities we juggle.  So, how do you stop feeling so overwhelmed all the time?  Read on for ways to overcome anxiety from a Denver-based anxiety therapist.

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Mental Health Resources for New Moms in Denver
Victoria Murray, LCSW Victoria Murray, LCSW

Mental Health Resources for New Moms in Denver

Becoming a new mom is an incredible journey, filled with so many highs and lows.  One minute it can feel like you’re on cloud nine, snuggling with your baby while they nap or soaking in their first smiles and giggles, and the next you’re pulling your hair out over feeding problems, blowouts and sleepless nights.  There can be moments where you feel really connected to your partner and family, sharing this new love and joy that nothing can prepare you for.  And, there can also be moments that feel really lonely, isolating and anxiety-inducing. The transition to motherhood can be the most beautiful time in your life, but also the most challenging.  You don’t have to do this all on your own.  Denver is full of wonderful resources to help you feel connected, supported, and empowered during this season of your  life.  Read on for postpartum mental health resources and baby-friendly self-care activities from a postpartum therapist in. Denver, Colorado.

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Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) in Denver:  Coping Skills to Beat the Winter Blues
Victoria Murray, LCSW Victoria Murray, LCSW

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) in Denver:  Coping Skills to Beat the Winter Blues

Life in Denver can pose unique challenges to those who are susceptible to SAD and the winter blues.  Taking in the breathtaking Colorado scenery is something you can enjoy year-round.  But snow, cold temperatures and shorter days also mean nature is less accessible.  For Coloradans who are used to getting so much fulfillment from nature and outdoor activities, adapting to the winter weather can be a huge lifestyle adjustment. The good news is, there are activities and coping tools that you can use to help the winter blues not hit as hard, and combat some of the symptoms of seasonal affective disorder.  Read on for tips to overcome the winter blues in Denver, Colorado. 

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5 Tips for Overcoming Perfectionism
Victoria Murray, LCSW Victoria Murray, LCSW

5 Tips for Overcoming Perfectionism

The concept of “perfect” is usually subjective, and can be a moving target.  Striving for the perfect job, perfect partner, perfect body - who’s to say when you’ve reached it?  How can you measure these things?  Perfectionism is often rooted in the feeling of not being good enough, and desire to push yourself to work harder, try harder, exercise more, eat less, until you can achieve that feeling.  The problem is, if you are making decisions from a place of not feeling good enough, no amount of working harder or doing more is going to make you feel good enough.

The good news is, it is possible to overcome perfectionism and learn to go easier on yourself.  You can find better work/life balance, make more space for joy and connection, and feel less fearful of failure.  Read on for 5 tips for overcoming perfectionism.

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How to Mindfully Deal With Thanksgiving and Holiday Anxiety
Victoria Murray, LCSW Victoria Murray, LCSW

How to Mindfully Deal With Thanksgiving and Holiday Anxiety

While the holiday season can often be referred to as "the most wonderful time of the year", it can also sometimes feel like the most stressful time of the year.  During the holidays, we are often so focused on what everyone else needs from us - friends, parents, spouses, children - that our own needs get pushed to the wayside.  Booking holiday travel, gift-buying and making time for extended family can often seem to take priority over all else.  However, neglecting our own needs can lead us to feel anxious, depressed  and certainly overwhelmed.  The chaos of the holiday season makes it a time that it is especially important to be mindful of taking care of our own needs - because frankly, if we're not intentional about it, it likely won't happen. Read on for tips on managing Thanksgiving anxiety and holiday stress.

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